Thursday, May 03, 2007

Could They Get Any Bigger??



I kid you not - these are what my breasts look like at the moment. They are lumpy and I just want to cry but, I'm tough so I'll carry on.

My man has proven to me in the last 24 hours - twice - just why I love him to death and he is my best friend.

1. When he got home from work and I was sitting in dining room, breast pump milking my engorged breasts, muffin top swelling over tight jeans and grimacing in pain (not an attractive look) he offered to "suck" some milk off each breast for me if I needed him to. There was no sexual innuendo in it, he just wanted to help my pain. I didn't take him up on the offer but thought it was extremely thoughtful.

2. My best mate txt me last night to see if I wanted to go to a cafe in Governor's Bay tomorrow night to hear an African woman talk about her plight in life and how she has overcome it and then go for a drink at the pub. I replied that I couldn't as we are very low on cash due to bad weather and Blair not having work and therefore a low pay. When I told Blair he seemed upset that I couldn't go out and just phoned me to say that he has organised a progress payment on the garage he is building and that I should go out. (This even though he knows Sian is very attached to me and is likely to do her prunes for him).

So, this leads me to this question:

Who do YOU love and what is a great example of why??

10 comments:

Yummy Mummy said...

Hi there Jules...
I love you 'secret story"....

Who do i love and why??? My hubby... I have been a bit grumpy for a while and woke this mornign to a coffee in bed... what a better way yot wake hey!! It isn't the big things.. it is all of the little things that add up!
Have a great day!

Chris H said...

Who do I love and why? Yee gods, the list is enormous! First and foremost I love all my kids and grandkids, just cos I do. And I love Stew my hubby, cos he treats me like a queen, is always there for me and he loves me even when I am being a monumental bitch! And he's not bad in bed either! Oops too much information! I love all my friends, cos they are my friends... and I love all my "new" friends from the net.... they have become like a huge extended family and I am just so grateful for their ongoing support and concern. I love most people come to think of it! Maybe not George Bush... he's a dork.

Jo said...

Great question Jules!

I love my husband Dave. Recently I've had a complete mare of a time, culminating in being hospitalised for extreme anxiety/depression whilst in Africa. He sat by my side in hospital every day, didnt complain once, supported me through everything, and had to call my parents and tell them what was happening, which he did with love and sensitivity. He is a tower of strength, and I only hope I can repay the favour in some way (obviously I dont wish him the same thing as I went thru!).

Jo

Kate said...

What a lovely post. Well, I love so many people for so many reasons.. but one today was when I dropped Joseph off somewhere this morning, and as he was walking back towards me I thought how hot he was looking, and he gave me a secret smile, and I gave one back.. and I LOVE that those two smiles said so many things, that only we know. It's lovley.

Hope your boobs are better soon!! Hot shower? That always helped me squeeze some out.

Tania said...

Definitely sounds like you've got yourself quite a catch there - hope you enjoy your night out!

As for me, well I had news today from a friend of mine that her 3rd IVF treatment was unsuccessful! It sort of puts things in perspective as to how much I love and adore my husband and baby and how truly blessed all of us mums are that can have kids.

Jo said...

Hi again Jules

Will def leave a message of support for you on Beck's blog - its a long story but its all to do with Mat who is in hospital with Guillam Barre syndrome (sp!?).

I will let her know you are thinking of her.
xo

Hilly said...

Wow, your poor boobs! What a sweet man you have.

I too love my hubby....no matter what else is going on - us fighting, us being apathetic or in love, he knows me better than anyone in the world and that is true comfort!

Lyn said...

What a day to be asking this question ... grrr ... damn it!!

I suppose I love my husband but he was a dork tonight ... so maybe not!! yeah ok, I do, well tomorrow I will.

Wanna_B_slim said...

Hey jules... Glad you have been named as Grooten (My name for it) sensitive!!
Join the club honey!!
You will feel so much better in no time girl.. and that weight will start falling off!!
Believe me...
Grooten free dieting can be easy...
I will help you out any way i can..Just have to get together sometime and chat

Wanna_B_slim said...

Oh and who do I love and why???
I love my special guy Mark.. coz he gave up a hell of alot to be with me... and he puts up with alot of shit from me... and my ex and he has accepted my kids without too many issues...
blah blah...
And just coz he loves me right back.. and it is a long time since I have felt so loved and idolised... ;o)